Getting your first book deal with a publisher is such a huge adventure, and every writer’s story is different. Some take a year, some take twenty years to get published.

Today’s post is to share with you the timeframe for how i wrote – and signed a book deal with a traditional publisher – for my first nonfiction book, Love & Other U-Turns.

Although the publishing world has changed a lot since 2006, I truly believe that with the power of social media and the online world, there are more opportunities than ever if you’d like to have your book snapped up by a publisher or agent.

Here’s where my first book deal began…

Way back in a time before Facebook

Twelve years ago, I had no idea how to write a book, just a gnawing ache that it was something I really wanted to do.

I never set out to write a travel memoir, or a literary memoir (even though both were genres I absolutely loved to read), I just wanted to write a book. I tinkered with a few ideas (and even a couple of novels, while I was at University), but for a long time, I doubted I could ever finish an 80 – 120 000 word manuscript.

  • Start with a few thousand words. Build up to ten. Then fifty. Keep stretching yourself. You learn more about storytelling, the more you write.
Freelance writing and ‘platform’

In 2007, I’d been making my living as a freelance writer, writing articles, columns, feature stories and interviews for newspapers and magazines for almost two years.  I always knew that a book deal rested on some sort of  ‘platform’ – or at the very least, some way ‘in’ to the industry. Freelance journalism was, just such an ‘in’ – publishers who read the Sunday magazines would have seen my by-line, and of course, the contacts I had in magazines and newspapers would have led to reviews or media coverage of a book, if i published one. Lots of writers I knew had developed a feature story into a book idea. I started to feel more urgent about making the most of this ‘platform’ – I had no idea how long the weekly newspaper columns would last.

  • The great thing is, to secure a book deal now, you no longer need to rely on traditional media – you could even have a huge facebook following of your quirky thermomix recipes or you’ve written a thesis on your topic. All potential publishers want to know is if you’re known or have any expertise or niche in your topic. Get yourself set up online sooner rather than later. If you need help, take a look at Create Your Writer Platform (an online course I created from my experience in digital publishing and media.)
  • In 2005 and around when I was starting to think of writing a book,  Julie and Julia, and Save Karyn, come out – both started as blogs and were optioned for film rights as soon as the memoir was published.
  • The online world has opened up the possibilities for a ‘platform’ more than ever. Platform can include: a great blog/you-tube/instagram following, expertise in your industry, feature articles for magazines being written about you, a story on a TV or Radio station about you (perhaps you’ve accomplished something magnificent or unusual?). These can all be leveraged to secure a book deal. Download your free Writer Platform Checklist to learn more.

Expand your word count

After writing stories of up to 2000 and 3000 words, I knew I wanted to attack a larger piece. But what was I going to write about? Randomly, I flew to New York, after a large copywriting project saw me writing about 5000 words in one week for a really popular TV website.

A year earlier, I’d travelled Australia with nothing more than a laptop and a suitcase with a few changes of clothes, making my living as a writer while my boyfriend at the time performed in outback pubs and bars.

So, in New York, I started sending group emails to my friends (including my growing list of fellow-freelancers, as Facebook started to take off and it became easier to connect with relative strangers who did what I did). In these emails I’d recount the large rats eating pizza on the street, the delight of ice skating in the snow, the party I was invited to on a street corner with Cindy Lauper, my crazy date with a Brooklyn cop who didn’t understand me when I asked for ‘cutlery’… Just light and funny stuff, really. I loved the randomness of New York.

  • Write about what you like to write about, find like-minded peers who share the same values and interests. Expand your word count. Find people who love to read your writing, and foster good relationships in the industry.


Writing community and motivation

One of my freelance writer friends generously forwarded one of my emails to someone she knew in publishing, and a day or two later, they emailed me asking if I had anything to send her that could be a book.

This was just the impetus I needed. I’d ALWAYS wanted to be a published author. Here was an actual publisher at a big-name publishing house, asking me if I could send her ‘what I was working on’. I hadn’t actually been working on anything at the time except my freelance columns and features, so I looked at the emails I’d written which had been forwarded on as a potential book,  and used that to fuel an all-weekend writing binge. I knew I had to get three sample chapters ready.

The only thing was, I had no idea what I was doing. My sample chapters were really just a series of anecdotes and there was no real challenge or narrative thread to hold anything together.

  • Foster great writing networks and make the most of EVERY opportunity. And when I say make the most… I mean follow up! Move! Act! Nothing would have happened if i’d sat around waiting for a magical agent to appear…
The book proposal

By then, it was December 2007. New York was snowing, and i was housesitting for a friend in Brooklyn. I sent the publisher three sample chapters and a semi-synopsis (I think it was only 200 words, because again, I had no idea what I was doing and rather than jump into researching how to pitch a book, I just hurried along to get her something!)

After a weekend of writing in intense hyper-focus, I submitted what i’d crafted into a pitch, and didn’t hear anything for over a month. I returned to Australia, and in early February, I finally heard back from the publisher. She said my story didn’t feel ‘sustainable’ as a book and that I hadn’t spent long enough in New York to write a book-length travel narrative about the experience.

But also – really really helpful information. Narrative – and book-length narrative, particularly – needs DEPTH.

I licked my wounds and went back to freelancing. I thought about what she’d written, a lot. For months, in fact. (Hey, an email from a big-name publisher goes STRAIGHT to the pool room and I think I even printed it out!).

  • Even though it was a rejection, it was incredibly helpful. It was advice from a publisher! I focused on what she said was missing from the New York story – meat, length, depth, challenge.

I thought about my journey around Australia, the previous year – which  had plenty to sustain a whole book. Also (and even more importantly), it was something I really wanted to write about. It had something in common with the travel memoirs I loved to read.
It was challenging. There was depth to the story (fears I had to overcome, relationship difficulties, a challenge I needed to surmount – managing to make a living from writing while also living out of a car, etc). Emails and anecdotes are all well and good (and I did use a lot of my emails and diary entries for what ended up being that first published memoir) but almost like a song needs a certain number of lines to build to a crescendo or the chorus to be anything interesting, you need to flesh things out. There needs to be some ‘meat’ to your story. I knew that my journey around Australia had been difficult enough to sustain a memoir.

  • Before you go hurly burly into pitching a book, have a think about the kinds of memoirs you actually like to read. You’re going to spend a lot of time in the ‘world’ of your book, so make sure it’s a story you can swim around in happily for months to years. Make sure it’s challenging enough to sustain your interest.
Go quiet and write

After that email, I quietly began chipping away at what became Love & Other U-Turns. About six months later, I’d written around 70 000 words when the same publisher contacted me again (out of the blue!) to see if I was working on anything new. Another huge opportunity! Again, I was so keen to make the most of her contact that I (foolishly) sent her the 70 000 word mess I’d written. It was less than a first draft – it was like a stream-of-consciousness mess. It had no structure, no through-line, and I didn’t even know about the structure of a memoir, or how to write a synopsis.

  • Write your synopsis, check the three-act structure when you’re planning your memoir, get your focus sentence and do some planning before launching into your first draft (or second, or third.) And DO NOT send a half-written first draft to a publisher!
More rejection

Eventually, I did actually hear back from the publisher (I’m still horrified that I sent her that completely unstructured 70 000 word first draft!). It was a brief email but there was one line which was encouraging.
She ultimately said what I’ve said above: the writing was good, but she needed a finished ‘story’. A narrative. A complete manuscript. Not just 70 000 words loosely written about a topic, she needed a cohesive narrative that followed the conventions of story.

What and how I could get to that point, I still didn’t know.
After about five more intensive redrafts (including extensive edits after giving it to two friends who taught English at the time, and loved to read and give helpful ideas), I had the manuscript ready for submission.
My original publishing contact had left the company, but because I’d done so much work on the manuscript, I had an offer of publication after cold pitching it to Allen and Unwin within a week.

This was roughly TWO YEARS after that initial email introduction when I’d been living in New York. I have no doubt that I could have shortened that time, and written a much better first draft – or at least, something much closer to the final draft – if I’d have known a little more about story structure and planning before I started to pitch and write my first memoir.

Here are three ways you can learn from my mistakes and move quicker from concept to a book deal:
  1. Write about the experience or story that has the most ‘juice’ for you – the most conflict, challenge, drama, the most questions for you. That intensity will also keep you interested, as you work on the book, because it will take you much longer than you probably expect right now, if it’s your first book!
  2. If your book is a personal story, learn how to structure a BOOK LENGTH PERSONAL NARRATIVE, which is very different to a nonfiction which has no narrative through-line. The Art of Memoir teaches you exactly what to do to achieve this.
  3. Begin your book with a catalyst or a problem – look at who you were at the beginning of your ‘adventure’ and compare it to who you are now. There must be a change in the character (you) for there to be a story. That’s where the real story lies! The CHANGE. The DILEMMA. The PROBLEM. Without change – there is no story!
  4. Map out your book and plan it before you start to write it. At a very basic level, every memoir plan needs a good synopsis, a focus sentence, two goals, hook, well-structured narrative arc, and a timely and relatable theme. I cover ALL of what took me my first memoir book deal to learn, inside The Art of Memoir. And the 5 principles of memoir that sell are explained in my free class on the 90 day draft method.


Everything it took me so long to learn for my first book deal, and what came AFTER, is the reason I now teach, consult and coach nonfiction authors on the art of the manuscript, the pitch, and the submission and sales process. You can browse all my current free and paid offerings on this page right here.

If you have your draft and you know it’s as good as you can get it, perhaps you’re ready for the Book Deal Accelerator? Memoir is unique as a genre because you need a good sample of the writing to secure a book deal, and it needs to show certain things. Take a look at my masterclass below if you haven’t already.